In our noisy world we are constantly bombarded by infinite ways to be distracted. We're are asked to stay connected all the time and to make room for introspection. We're asked to be fit and to carve time to restore and relax. We are asked to be mindful and to multitask. And that is just my inbox today. No wonder it's very easy to live in a constant state of confusion.
It doesn't have to be that way.
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As I savor my green smoothie this morning, I'm thinking of the power of committing yourself to a single actionable goal. You see, a few years ago I was having a hard time eating breakfast consistently and now for over a year, I have eaten a nutritious breakfast every single day. As I type I can feel the nourishing Prana (life force) of my green smoothie hitting my veins and I'm reminded of an important life lesson that is often ignored: if you commit to an action rather than thinking about a desire, you actually get to experience your intention.
The mistake we all make.
As soon as I began my yoga journey, I learned about setting intentions. Simplified, your intentions are the energetic starting points for your goals. If you come to my yoga class, as I learned it from my yoga teachers, I'll ask you at the beginning to center yourself and then set an intention. The intention usually reveals itself naturally and in a simple form: "I will breath fully," "I will be strong," or "I will feel peace." Whether in a yoga class or not, intentions are the seeds for our desired outcomes.
For example from my intention to "feeling nourished," I arrived to my goal of "eating breakfast." I really wanted to honor my intention so I would think about "feeling nourished" every day. Thinking about my intention did bring me to eat breakfast, sometimes. I figured my spirit would guide my consciousness and it would unveil how breakfast would happen. This resulted in zero progress and lots of self-disappointment. Finally, I changed my strategy, I committed to plan my breakfasts for a week ahead of time. I made the commitment by braking down my goal into small actions. I studied options that would work for me. I started focusing on the daily tasks that would make me eat breakfast till things aligned with my intention.
My mistake was that I assumed that because I wanted to eat breakfast to honor my intention, I would end up getting a desirable result. That wanting to do something was enough.
How often do you do this in your own life?
We often think about our intentions without committing to goals . And if we have goals, we think about them without breaking them into specific actions. The bottom line is that without an action we won't experience our intention. We want to "be of service" without committing our time and talents to helping others. We want to "feel strong" without considering what part of our body we want to focus on and what exercises we'll be doing. We wish to be "more creative," but we never work or finish a particular project. In other words, we don't commit to a specific goal: a goal with tasks and a time frame.
Specific Actions Lead to Direction
All those intentions we set for ourselves will point us to important, but broad questions "what should I do with my life?" or "will I learn what love is?" or "how is God guiding me right now?" Very important questions in our spiritual quest but non of these questions will clarify our next step.
When you commit to action driven goals, these are easy to break into tasks and then the steps are clearer to follow. You want to eat a nutritive breakfast tomorrow morning? Next step: what will constitute a nutritive breakfast? So you found out what you want to eat? Next step: do you have the ingredients at home or do you need to stop at the market? OK, you got the ingredients? Next Step: how long will take you to prepare breakfast? At what time do you need to wake up? etc., etc.
Your intentions are important as a way to honor your deeper self, but if you only concentrate in your vague desires vs. specific goals, you'll end up confused and frustrated.
Once you begin to commit to specific actions that work towards your goals, these will inform you of your next step and then the next, etc.
So often, we avoid formulating a specific goal out of fear that we aren't sure if this goal will align with our intentions. We somehow forget that we can always change our mind later on.
This is perhaps the miracle about committing to a specific goal: if you concentrate in the actions to achieve your goals and not the goal itself, then you’ll begin to thrive and achieve something greater than you ever imagined.
Commit to something and begin it now.
Once you fully decide to start, to paraphrase Pablo Coelho, the universe will find ways to help you finish.
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